I look for guys who are chubby to fat, between 230 and 350+, around my age range of 20-35. i want to find a guy who is more like a friend (who likes to cuddle) than a lover. I don’t want sex all the time, because if it becomes a physical relationship than a romantic one, then it doesn’t seem to work out, unless you work in porn.
I have created another blog, but this time, I turn to you, the public. You see, I have an ever expanding collection of music on my computer and I need to downsize it by a lot. So I ask you all to rate the songs I post so I can weed out the winners and losers. I will post one or two songs a week and will ask you to rate each song out of 100. This will help me considerably. Here’s a link to the blog
Hey, I created a new blog to help me with my music confusion. Here’s the link: http://plsratemysongs.blogspot .com/
Please share this with people you know, and have them give their opinion.
Thanks.
I was just checking my messages on Grommr today and I found this message that really made me smile:
By TipTheScales on 8/11/2011 2:47 PM
Ray:
I’m sure you don’t know who I am and I’m totally not your type (too old, too small, not a gainer). But I have followed you for many years. There are so many guys on sites like these who fantasize but don’t actually do much about it. I know that you’re a serious guy.
Anyway, I wanted to give you a quick thank you for your blog. I don’t know how many guys I run into who say they want to be 500 pounds and they’re currently 150 and they have no idea what they’re contemplating and no plan to get there. But on those rare occasions when I run into a serious guy who wants to understand the practical issues, I point them to your blog. It’s a great resource. You’re doing a great service to the community.
Keep up the good work.
(distant admirer)
Needless to say, I thank you for sending me this message. I appreciate it so much and I am glad that out of the few who do read this blog that someone appreciates the advice I give. I thank you and ask everyone to send more messages like this one and send me more questions. Without you, this blog will be collecting dust in Tumblr’s shelves.
500 for now. I might gain more weight later down the road with the right guy, but for now, I want to get to 500 pounds.
I am thinking about it. Not yet sure. But people can always access my videos whenever they please on my youtube channel page.
check it now. I have been waiting for questions from you, the followers, and up to now, I haven’t really received anything.
I have never had an encourager stuff me. My philosophy on encouragers is that if I am still able to move my arms and hands to my mouth, I can feed my self. That doesn’t mean that I’m not open to trying it with someone.
It happened about three years ago. I was making myself some burgers and onion rings late one night. and as I went to sit down with my freshly cooked food smelling oh-so good, I split the inseam of my favorite jean shorts I was wearing at the time. I was aroused, but sad. I liked those shorts. I miss them. R.I.P. Black denim shorts. I will miss you.
I was 15 when I knew I liked big men. I was in those awkward teen years where you knew that something weird was happening to you, no matter how teachers tell you different. And I liked looking at big guys from old yearbook pictures and it sort of clicked in my head.
